We’re a married 38-year-old couple who has long sought a capable, sane, and fun guy to join us for potentially wild and extreme MFM adventures. The problem? We’ve repeatedly run into flakes, performance issues, or folks who seem incapable of building the trust required for this dynamic. If you often skim but don’t engage, we’re probably here for you!

We offer an incredible opportunity but also know that we’re the commodity, so please consider what we’re seeking. We are not a cuckold couple—he is perfectly capable of pleasing her and we are not seeking an Alpha. We also aren’t polyamorous. We are purely seeking a fun, sexual, NSA environment to explore and fulfill fantasies.

She is wildly submissive and absolutely loves the idea of simultaneously submitting to two men at once. There would be few—if any—boundaries with the right connection. He loves seeing her perform and hopes to find a buddy who can enjoy that with him. Although he isn’t bi (we’ve tried that), he absolutely wants to find someone who is comfortable enjoying the MFM dynamic with him. He wants to be able to enjoy the discussions of planning experiences for her, getting turned on for those experiences together, and then mutually enjoy all aspects of watching, being watched, and working together to blow her mind. We’re fully comfortable if you’re bi, but want to set realistic expectations as to what we’re into.

We’re likely seeking someone in the 30-40 range. We’re located in the southern suburbs.

We appreciate thoughtful responses. Please include your age, relationship situation, and how what you’re seeking aligns with us. We will not respond to one-liners or other underwhelming attempts.

A teaser of her can be found at u/sandssub10.