My husband(m26) and I (f25) are new to this lifestyle and have never done anything with another couple before. That being said we are super excited and eager to make some moves and connect with like minded people! However it’s kind of intimidating meeting another couple knowing that the pressure to perform is there. Our ideal set up would be getting into a room full of like minded people, have some drinks, and if there is a mutual connection THEN go to a more private area to room share (not comfortable with the full swing yet) and potentially have us ladies play around 🥵 and if we don’t click with other people we would be able to leave no sweat or pressure 🤷🏻‍♀️ or a naked pool party setting vs a bar? But same idea having a big group of people around to choose from with no pressure to “match”. Is this a thing? Can it be a thing?