I am a divorced 50yr old bi guy that has a 7yr old daughter who is with me 95% of the time. As of now her mother has her every other weekend and one day a week from 3:30 until 6:30pm. This may change but for now this is it.
You're probably wondering why I started this post with the info about my divorce and custody arrangement. Well, the truth is I want people to realize that although I may post a lot looking for hookups it has been very hit and miss. I've come to realize that most people on here like to talk a good game but when it actually comes to meeting they either are fake, they flake or just stop responding. It's all good.....I know I am not the best looking or the best catch out here but I am real, sincere, honest, loyal and respectful. I'd love to meet someone who understands that my daughter has to come first and until our 'arrangement' changes I won't have a lot of time to devote to a new growing relationship. That is why I post looking to connect when she is either at school or with her mom.
As I mentioned at the beginning I am bi so I am looking for either sex for fun times. I have never been in a relationship with a guy before but at this time I am not ruling out that possibility. My shortest relationship was 8 years so I really don't just hop into one without weighing all the info. Yes, I have had some experience with being with men and if asked I'd have to say that I am a bottom. Obviously in all of my m/f relationships (I'm 50 and I've only been in 5) I was the one in control. When it comes to the m/m play, I like to give up that control and feel what the females I've been with have felt.
I served 15yrs with the US Marine Corps and separated as an E-9 or Master Gunnery Sergeant. I am a combat veteran with 4 deployments. During my service I again was in command of other people which is another reason why I choose to relinquish control during sexual encounters. I am in no way feminine (not trying to bash those that are).
If you're still reading this and you would like to chat and get to know me better please feel free to DM me. I've got to be honest I really don't know what I am looking for. I find both sexes to be extremely stimulating but at this point in time, I am kind of jaded when it comes to the female sex. I have been married 3 times and they all ended in divorce due to them cheating. Two while I was deployed and this last time because we made the mistake of opening our relationship and she developed feelings for the other guy. I was never unfaithful in any relationship I've ever had and don't plan to start now.
There is so much more I'd like to say especially about what my strengths and talents are in a relationship but I've decided that can wait until someone DMs me and wants to know. I'll also let that person know what my weaknesses are. I do have to admit I feel the good far exceed the bad but that will ultimately be up to the person.
So like I said if I sound interesting and you wanna know more just hit me up and let's chat.
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