We’re a 37-year-old married couple who is fully secure and committed but has long fantasized about finding a male counterpart to fully explore and enjoy unbridled MFM experiences. The apparent problem is finding someone who is sane, safe, and who can perform. We also need someone who understands the role they’d play in this dynamic. You can see a bit of her at u/sandssub10 (unprompted outreach to her directly is disqualifying).

She’s an incredibly open-minded submissive who loves the idea of opening herself to two men simultaneously. In the right environment and dynamic, there would be few—if any—boundaries. The goal would be to push her limits, experience as much as possible, and leave everyone with deeply satisfied fantasies. Obviously, this would require an ability to be articulate about what everyone wants to experience. It also requires someone who is open-minded, enjoys watching and being watched, and doesn’t balk at the incidental contact required for a real MFM experience. The dynamic also would included some 1:1 play with husband watching. He isn’t bi, but certainly qualified as hetero-comfortable/flexible.

We are 100% real and will verify at the appropriate time. To be clear, we’re not newbies. We’ve had previous meetups but only marginal success. It’s too often been our experience that people seem great but then flake or are unable to perform in the moment.

We’ve put a great deal of effort and time into to our ask and would ask the same of any response. We’re the commodity and can afford to be picky. We will not respond to one liners or unprompted outreach to her.

Instead, please respond with a little about you (including if you’re attached or single), what you’re hopeful to find, and why you think you’d be a good match with what we’re seeking. Although we’re quite open minded, we’d prefer someone closer to our age.