GW2 didn't really kick in to me, and I didn't exactly love the crafting system because I felt that I needed like 1000 logs or ores to even reach 50 crafting levels. I'm planning to play Rift (the trial) and see if I'll like it.

I want something that has a holy trinity to it, and also has a stable playerbase so that people won't have difficulty in finding raid/party members. Also something with crafting that isn't very grindy (something like LOTRO crafting, it was organized well). Some extra things I want - A fantasy setting (graphics like WoW and Allods are a to me, but not needed) - Fun - Good Community

So any suggestions? I can't really put my tongue into anything so suggest any good Fantasy MMO that you know. I tried RoM, Aion, Allods.

EDIT: No P2P please. F2P or buy to play only, dont have money for p2p