I am about to enter my freshman year of college and had a roommate that I somewhat knew from high school. I didn't want to potluck it and thought going in with someone I knew a bit would help.

Fast forward a few weeks and we don't talk at all and from what I have heard he is what you could consider an introvert and not that outgoing. I didn't have a good high school experience and one of the things I wanted to become at my school was involved in campus activities and so on. So I decided to look at other options.

A day or two ago another friend who I used to work with told me he needs someone to room with in a 2x2 suite. So I jumped on the opportunity to change. And starting to day I am officially rooming with him and two other guys who share a connected bathroom. I texted the person I was planning on rooming with to let him know of the change and afterwards my mom said he felt bad for him and in turn I started feeling guilty. She was the one who said I should change roommates if I didn't feel right and now I can't get this feeling of guilt off of my chest.

Personally I don't think I should feel guilty, and I don't want to, I want to do what's best for me for my first year of college and if that means that I have to change roommates then I would do it again and again. But I still have to feel for him. He hasn't responded to the text as of now and he doesn't usually respond to texts at all so it's not unusual. I just don't think I should feel guilty about this...

Please MMFB