What is everyone’s view on having photos and or videos taken during a meet up? Or being sent to you?

(Let me start out saying this is about people trying to establish something with others on dating apps.) I see people sending pictures and videos of themselves messing around with another partner they are involved with and I cant help but wonder if those people know they are having videos and photos sent around. I know for me and my wife we both don’t want someone taking compromising photos/videos of us. We don’t even send anything that we wouldn’t post on facebook or instagram to potential partners. We have a lot of tattoos and that would easily identify us if the photos were leaked so we just don’t do it. Just seeing what others opinions are about the subject.