So when I first brought this idea to my wife it was an instant no. Over a few months she started rolling playing with a dildo as a I know you want a mfm so ill compromise type thing. Then a few months later she started dirty talking about it. Fast forward a year and we managed to accidentally find ourselves at a lifestyle spa in Vegas thinking it was a nude pool. To my surprise in the soa she started playing with me infront of people. A little later she suggested we go in a play room and we had sex next to another couple while a few people watched. Mind you I was mind blown because we have never even been nude in front of others and this was our first time doing anything like this. Now we didn’t play with anyone else but we went back to our room and had sex again while she was talking dirty about our recent experience.

Now back home a few weeks later we keep talking about how great an experience we had. She brought up that I never discussed boundaries if something would have presented itself. Through our conversation she said she’s comfortable makingout and having a guy rub on her body and her rub on his but no sure if penetration would be a go for her. I feel like this had been a big step but wondering if anyone had a similar experience and any advice.