So me and my wife were supposed to meet up with a redditor for our first MFM. Things were looking really good except he never showed up to the golf course. BUT two guys our age asked if we wanted to join them and of course we accepted. It went perfect, we all had fun and vibed. Wife flirted abit and found out they were both single. We already had talks of them coming back to our hotel for pregame so i thought it was a done deal. After the last hole i let them know what room and everything (we already had hotel room setup). I texted them on the way to our room asking if they wanted me to grab any of them drinks as i was grabbing myself some. They respectfully declined saying they were just going to hang back that night. Bummer, so now that we got a taste and were so close, we need something to happen asap. My question is should i ask them if they want to go golfing again and see what happens? maybe just let my wife go with them? we have kids so it's hard with finding a baby sitter. and why did they decline the first time? not comfortable with the dynamics? We didnt specifically say were in the lifestyle but i think we made it pretty obvious with subtle hints lol