Wife and I are not new to MFM, but we’re looking for more organic ways to find single guys instead of always relying on an app.

Here’s the problem, my wife is traditionally shy until the ice is broken so she’s not super comfortable approaching guys out of the blue, especially on her own.

I’m more socially outgoing and have no problem approaching people, but It feels strange to approach guys and transition to, “hey man, check out my hotwife.”

We haven’t tried going to the same bar separately while she dresses sexy and sits at the bar. But we don’t get a ton of time to go out and she’s not happy about the idea of sitting by herself at a bar for extended periods of time waiting for someone who may or may not hit on her.

So what are some methods or signals we can utilize in a bar that might help us attract the right kind of single guys? Does anyone here have consistent experience with going out and getting lucky? Is our best bet to just dress sexy and wait for a guy that’s interested? We keep hearing so many stories about couples picking up single guys at bars, but have no idea how it happens. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks!