My wife and I have been exploring a MFM for a few months and she had her first date with a guy last week and we have a hotel booked in 8 days to take our first steps into a MFM.

This has been great for our communication, relationship, and sex life. She is really enjoying herself and now has started going through a list of my friends and former coworkers who she wished we had taken the opportunity to invite in. Guys she thought were cute and safe to fuck. Would it be inappropriate to reach out to these guys and ask them if they would have taken us up on that invitation? She is excited to find out if they looked at her that way but I thought that may be weird to ask.