Myself(44 yrsM) & my wife(39 yrsF) have been married for 11 years now. About 3 yrs ago I explained to her that I find the thought of an MFM with her extremely hot & it turns me on. She originally scoffed at the idea with concern. Since then we role play the idea during sex & when I say something head on about it, she orgasms almost immediately. (Example: The other night she’s riding me reverse cowgirl & I said “That’s right baby, you ride cock like a champ. Now open your throat up & take another cock in your mouth”.. Immediately she came hard. Or when we’re fucking she’ll say “Let’s add a toy inside me while you fuck me baby. It’s like 2 hard cocks fucking me”.. she cums immediately. But when not in the moment, it’s not something she’s willing to consider or talk about. Yes, I’ve mentioned it & spoken to her about it but I’m not getting anywhere…