My wife and I have been discussing a mfm for a long time now, we are both turned on by it but she doesn't know if she is ready. She says she's scared it would feel like cheating. A few months ago she seemed more willing and was open to meeting guys. It kind of goes back and fourth. We have multiple toys including one thats very big lol and she loves to use them:) I have some hot mfm pics like professional ones I was thinking of showing her to get her thoughts. What do you guys suggest? Also I know a guy who plays with couples and she has agreed to go out all three of us on a date and see if we vibe right, but she's scared of him not being into her or feeling like the 3rd wheel. What do you guys think I should do from here?