Sorry for the long post.

We figured it’s time to share our very first adventure. We remember it like yesterday. Even almost 7 years later. This is mostly to share how far we have come BUT also to serve as some help/encouragement for new couples (and even single men).

Many who have followed us know the story but we have been in the LS for almost 7 years now.

After fantasizing for a few years about what we thought we would like about a threesome we decided to finally take the first steps.

We set up a profile in 3fun and the DMs just became overwhelming. But not to be discouraged we both set out to establish our vetting process (still ever evolving) and we knew we didn’t want to just “hook up”. If they wanted instant meet ups they would have to look elsewhere.

Our main golden rule that we still follow today and established back then was “a meet up does not guarantee play”. In other words “no expectations”. If the vibe is right we don’t have a problem playing, but if the vibe isn’t there we don’t. Simple and seems obvious but always good to remember, takes a little pressure off.

So after talking to several guys we decided to meet up with someone who was pretty dang local to us.

The nerves were absolutely through the roof. We both decided to “pregame” with a little “liquid courage” (something not at all necessary now haha) to loosen up a bit.

We met at our fav local bar. He was a little bit older, definitely more experienced. So we were absolutely newbies.

When we met we can remember vividly holding each others hand and gripping so tight, a little bit of shaking. Liquid courage running in overtime.

We both were so nervous thinking everyone was looking at us three, whispering, speculating. “Look at those three, that husband is a cuck, they are gonna threesome”, those thoughts in our head. The room was spinning. Mind you this was just the initial meet up haha.

After a little while of us talking we started to feel a little more comfortable. But the main thought running through the brain was “I wanna see his dick in her mouth so bad” haha.

So we both give our signal that “this is a go” and he suggests we go to his place. We agree and follow him.

Our hearts were pounding but we were also very excited.

We remember the place was actually a rental studio apartment type situation. All good no worries.

Neither of knew how to make the first move and so he suggests we watch some porn. We defer to wife’s fav genre “sensual massage porn”. We start watching and naturally she starts playing with herself a little. He then started to take her shirt off and seeing another man playing with and sucking on her tits was just an amazing sight.

But then to see her take him out of his pants and put him in her mouth was even more breathtaking.

Soon we are both kissing and caressing her at the same time, she’s loving it. He starts to eat her out and watching her moaning and getting this pleasure form another man, there are no words other than “hot”.

It comes time to have her get on top of him but before she does she suggests we both go down on him, surprising us both as we had only briefly mentioned we were a bi comfortable couple. He was more than happy to have two mouths and so we both went down on a guy together for the very first time. Her audible moans of exciting and words of encouragement was so mind blowing.

That was a brief bit of sucking and then we helped him with his condom and he placed her on her back.

The moment he slid inside her, her looking at me for approval and my look to her of “it’s okay, do it” and “this is really happening” was a moment of connection that will forever be unmatched. That moment we feel our bond grew 1000 fold and we actually became closer than ever before.

Watching them fuck, her with another man was incredible, something literally a fantasy just four hours before. 🔥🔥🔥

He was very much aggressive with his squeezing and bitting her tits. Not in a bad way, but a way that really wasn’t in sync with our style. so I asked him to “maybe take it a bit easier”. He had no problem complying.

I got near her mouth and she began to suck me off. Him and I switched places and she sucked him while I was inside her.

But she wanted to have him take her doggystyle (her fav) and so he got back inside her. It wasn’t long before he was ready to cum and so she had him pull out and she finished him off on her tits, I followed shortly there after in the same manner.

We cleaned up and chatted for a little bit but then we left.

We didn’t really talk much on the ride home. Thinking about everything that just happened. We stopped for food and after we got our order and on the way home we both said “well that just happened”. Haha

We both decided to not talk about it really until the next day and we had time to process.

We talked about some of the things we did and didn’t like.

Nothing wrong with the guy but comparing the dynamic we had with him vs how much we have grown in confidence and what we desire and like…is pretty night and day.

“When we left you we were the learners, now we are the masters”, to quote a phrase haha.

We wouldn’t change a thing about that night. We learned from it. We are less filled with anxiety and more with anxious excitement now.

So for the new couples.

1. Take your time. Don’t jump in unless you both are on the same page and excited/ready.
2. Take your time in finding a guy. Don’t compromise just to “do it”. Vet vet vet.
3. You’re sadly going to run into flakes. Don’t be discouraged. You’re in this journey together. You’ll find a guy, it might just take a little time.
4. It gets easier. Less anxiety and nerves and more excitement 🔥
5. Really talk about how you might want the night to go, things that might happen you like or wouldn’t. Set your boundaries and stick to them.
6. Those nervous thoughts of “are people looking and whispering” are probably just that, thoughts. And hell, they may be thoughts that turn you on instead going forward 😜