Is it bad mfm etiquette to be concerned about sexual health, me and wife are exploring into our first ever mfm and have narrowed the search to a potential third. We’ve agreed a boundary of using protection and I assumed that would be for all of sexual activity but upon further conversation she’s said she doesn’t want to suck a condom lol. I’ve then raised the concern of things can spread via oral just as much as penetration. The person she’s picked is what could only be described as a god like man chiselled by Zeus himself 🤣 so as the male here has some concerns to his sexual relations and cleanliness before me meet. Am I being rational or am I making a deal out of nothing ?