My wife enjoys our use of a dildo, favorite is when she will lay down and I kneel near her face so she can suck me while I contort myself to use a wand vibrator and big dildo to fuck her at the same time. Her absolute favorite….

I want to step up into dvp with the dildo and/or her on her knees sucking me and the dildo. To continue our mfm fantasy…

Any advice? For dvp with the dildo, best to use a really small one to start ? (Our few are fairly large) lots of lube, am I missing anything?

For the double blowjob with the dildo, is that hot for her in the slightest? (For those who’ve done this) hard to imagine that will be as enjoyable for her.

Dp and anal play is off the table for her so those are not options.