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About a year ago I first mentioned to my wife that I had a mfm fantasy for us (I had done one long ago before I met her). Through some discussion she determined it was not something she wanted to do. But she said some things that clearly indicated it was at least hot to her. And she has enjoyed how we have stepped up our use of toys (dildos and cock sleeves) to role play a bit of an mfm or another man, in the bedroom. Curious to know 1. Any other advice or ideas of ways to continue to play with this fantasy (between the two of us. And 2. Any women out there who can confirm or deny if this has led to actually going to an mfm, when originally they were in the no category. I’m ok not ever doing one with my wife (the sex lately has been amazing) but want to make sure I continue to expand what we do without going to far.
First time my husband and I brought up an MFM was over dinner. Four years later it became a reality while on vacation in Vegas. There wasn't one thing that made it a reality for us but communication surrounding the fantasy, trust and feeling secure in what we had I knew it was time.
I think for women a lot of us struggle with society's view on women who are promiscuous and have multiple partners. Women are viewed negatively almost always outside of the small circle. Hopefully it's getting better but I remember that was something I struggled with initially.
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