This is a question that really concerns me. And it goes out to all the men here who have joined a couple as a guest/third or bull.

What is your honest and unvarnished opinion of us (the sharing husbands/boyfriends) and our wifes?

I'm really interested in your opinion. Especially because a widespread social opinion is that a man who shares his wife is not a "real man". And that women who get involved in this are sluts. Of course I don't think any of this is true and I understand that this is the opinion of lifestyle outsiders. So I want to know what poeple inside the lifestyle think.

Of course, I have already spoken about this topic with the men who have joined us. But theres always the possibility in the back of your mind that those men just tell me what I want to hear and that they don't care as long as they have shot at my wife.

So long story short:

What y'all think? What's your opinion of men who like to share their wifes/girlfriends?

What's your opinion on women having sex with multiple partners while in a commited relationship?

How importan is the couples relationship/marriage for you? Does it have a value for you as well?

How important is the husband/boyfriend for your connection with the wife? Meaning: Is it important that you get along well with him or do you not care at all?

Thanks guys!

For the other husbands and wifes: Please feel free to contribute to the discussion as well!