I (53M) and my wife (48F) are from Minnesota and have been swinging with couples for 7 years. Earlier this year we also started exploring the idea of including a single guy.

We had a trip to Iowa for a festival planned this past weekend and were staying Friday night in Des Moines. I thought this would be a great opportunity to explore further.

My Mrs had given me consent to set something up as a surprise for her, so I placed an ad here on Reddit.

I got many responses from single guys. Some were just a dick pic, or a just a “hey!”

For those truly interested in being with a couple in real life, those types of responses will most often get you ignored.

The ones who put more effort into their initial messages all got a response. They told me something about themselves.

Several would have been a good fit, but one stood out as being exceptional.

Our trip was about 3 weeks away when we started chatting and he seemed like the type of guy we would be vanilla friends with.

We agreed to meet at a casino bar. We had a lot of laughs and great conversations.

Eventually we went up to our room and we had a wonderful time.

All of this to say, yes. There are real couples here that want to include single guys. And yes. There are some quality singles guys here.