My wife and I have been fantasizing and role playing about an MFM threesome for several years now. We’ve identified a few potential candidates over the years but never had great opportunities to act because they’ve always been just acquaintances and not people we’re very close with. Our most recent idea was with someone who’s a friend of mine that I’m not super close with. He’s definitely a ladies man and seems like he could be into it. Any advice for how to make this happen? Like how should I go about proposing the idea to him. We don’t see each other very often but regularly talk about hanging out more. Also in everyone’s experience is it better to go with a friend or find someone through a 3sum dating app? We want to remain very private people when it comes to being in the lifestyle.