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As the title says what’s a normal time between first talking about it to doing it is normal? My gf brought it up as something she’d like to do eventually so I thought I’d ask other people’s experience, how long was it for you between first bringing it up to actually doing it?
Fantasies don’t have to go for tit for tat. If I want to do anal does that mean my husband should have to do anal as well to make my fantasy come true. It’s a ridiculous notion.
Yes a good third can make or break your experience.
There is normal but taking a few months to do some research, learn from others mistakes, and talk about any and every boundary potential problem you think might arise will help you have a good first experience. Jumping in too quick could lead to disaster and a bad first experience can be the reason you don’t have anymore.
I guess each age group is going to have its advantages. You’ll prob find plenty of willing volunteers but finding a mature one capable of respecting the relationship and keeping his mouth shut about it might be a struggle.
Personally I had the best luck on Feeld. Depending on your age it’s going to be a huge task wading through all the potential men. It can be exhausting but important to be extremely picky.
It may not go perfectly but there’s no reason to rush. Set yourself up for success.
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If it’s not something he wants then ya he needs to speak up and had every right to say no.