I'm a single, 32m who has been fortunate enough to have plenty of fantastic MFM experiences over the last couple of years. Recently I joined and became a full member of SDC and haven't had much luck getting responses from couples. I have pictures and a description of my interests on my profile, and I always write thoughtful messages to couples that I am interested in. I was hoping to get some feedback on a typical opening message of mine to see if there is anything I am doing wrong or I can improve upon....

Sample message below:

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Hi guys! Hope you’ve had a nice week so far! I really enjoyed looking through your profile, and I wanted to reach out and introduce myself. My name is ____, and like yourselves, Im a super easy going person who loves to explore the kinky side of things with other curious people.

Outside of the bedroom, Im a sports nut, a music / movie lover.... and I find nothing more satisfying than finding a new restaurant whether it's fine dining or a greasy spoon. At the end of the day though, my favorite place to be is around other kindhearted people who dont take themselves too seriously.

Most importantly am extremely respectful and never pushy. Making sure both of you are 110% comfortable is my #1 priority over anything sexual. As a single guy, I view myself as nothing more than a fun addition to your playtime and relationship.

I don't want to ramble too much, but I would be happy to share more about myself if you'd like. Thank you for taking the time to read my message. All the best.

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^^^Obviously this isn't a copy and paste as for what I write to every single couple..... I always make sure to address certain things on their profile to let them know that I am attentive to what they are looking for. This is simply a broad example of an opening message. As I said though, I'd love any feedback!