Hey guys need some help, I have a wife who is very closed minded. She practically didn't have a sex life until we met. I had an amazing sex life, while i was in the service. From sleeping with strangers, friends, swinging partners, female commanders, to 3 of my high school female teachers (after I was 18 of course). I want my wife to open up or be willing to explore and don't know how to do it. I had an ex-wife who was more open and we did swing, mmf, ffm, public, toys, glory holes, car fun, some ass play, to a full blown orgy. We ended up going our separate ways due to some personal issues. I do miss the excitement and the thrill of the experiences and I would like to experience them with my current wife. So far after 5 years, she went as far as me using a toy on her. I would like to try some ass stuff on her or myself but idk how to ask. I can't be like "hey can i fuck you in the ass or can you shove your finger up my ass", pretty sure she would freak the fuck out ahahhaha. Any recommendations or advise?