Hey everyone. Wife and I have been trying things out and we realize she is not ready to see me with another woman. While we party at clubs or LS vacation destinations everything flows good. We have only soft swapped because we are being cautions about doing something that we are going to regret. I know plenty of couples in the LS don’t like this dynamic but it’s what works for us and we are not going to do things we aren’t comfortable with just to please others.

That being said, I have told my wife in a few occasions that I’m am completely comfortable with a MFM dynamic and if she ever feels ready for a couple swap we can discuss it later. she is having a hard time believing that this scenario will fulfill me sexually and thinks i need another woman. truth is I'm good with any scenario as long as I'm not left out. i have no interest in being a cuck or for her to have solo play. not sitting on the sidelines while she has a threesome with a couple. only thing ill sit back and watch is if she wants girl-girl play.

guys- any of you have this dynamic? did your SO understand this

Ladies- if you were in a similar situation, would you be hesitant to move forward?