So my wife’s in Mexico with her Mom on a vacation. Not super erotic situation - her Mom has the bed so she’s in the couch. Anyway…

She knows what I’m into and what turns me on. We roleplay these conversations. She was at a performance in the resort and says “I think you should dress like this” (picture of a Mexican performer) large hat, cool silver pants etc. I made a light hearted joke.

Then she came back with “different fantasy”. Oh was like…”oh - you like him? Get a pic of the hot one”

She said “I’ll try when he comes back” band changed and didn’t see him again. But she remarked again - “none of them were as good looking”.

This is so hot to me as there’s some buy in to people other than me being hot/good looking. I love to hear her be playful and honest about being attracted to different men.

My question is - how can i invite/encourage more of this into our lives? I asked if she’d play that game with me at the pool or beach and she said “lol - not sure - think I’d be too shy”.

She’d had a few margaritas the other night.

Anyway - nothing x rated compared to you all :) but I’ve masterbated over it several times.