The wife and I often put several weeks of planning into a roll. We have it down to a ritual. The date, location, lighting, playlists, fun and sexy outfits, toys, snacks all carefully curated to make each roll special and different than the last. Usually we’ll start with picking a date and asking my wife what the “theme” of our party will be. The theme of the party then gives me a framework to begin to make the selections for the evening. When the big night arrives we will weigh out or doses, set our intentions and drop. On the come up is when the real preparation begins. We set up our lights, prepare our fuzzy surfaces, a nest of blankets and mirrors. Then on to setting up a refreshments area with waters, teas, fruit, chewy candies, gum, vicks inhalers, glow sticks ect. Then a hot shower together. While wife does her hair and makeup I’ll lay out our outfits for the night on the bed and turn on all the lights we set up earlier in another room. When the wife is ready I’ll first take her to the bedroom and reveal our outfits which will be a surprise. I then will give her details on what I picked, how it fits her theme and why she will look beautiful in it. This typically gets an ear to ear smile. We then shut all out the lights and step into our little rave den. Which is like stepping into a new world because at this point the roll has hit. Perfectly timed. I’ll then put on our playlist for some dancing and sensory play, followed by some couch locked cuddling. The grand finale is an mdma fueled naughty time. Anyone else do something similar and care to share in the comments. I love this community. Cheers!