hi! in no way am i bashing or targeting anyone using MDMA, i’m just a concerned wife who is looking for signs of my partners use. he has told me he has used it before and quit because he had a seizure from it, and i am 29 weeks pregnant and worried about him right now and just want to know if what i’m seeing is correct. a few times since we met this has happened that made me suspicious but,

1. every now and then he’ll stay up until like 7 am without sleeping, listening to music with airpods on, won’t sleep no matter how hard i try. and when i observe him throughout the night/morning, he’s constantly (every now and then) swinging his jaw left and right, and clenching it, his eyes are very dazed and half open like he’s very relaxed.

and he’ll use the bathroom very frequently.

1. all of the sudden he’s having muscle aches very frequently, we’ve even gone to acupuncture and his dr for it because of how intense the cramping was, mostly his neck and shoulders, he’s constantly very sore

2. he is losing weight, he was skinny when we first met and then he’s maintained a weight about 30 lbs heavier for almost a year and a half, but suddenly his weight is dropping again. he almost is never hungry, and when he does eat it’s about twice a day. and he is constantly drinking water, or none at all.

3. i’ve never seen this happen before but he was getting up to grab something and he stood up lightly (not fast enough to get a blood rush) he completely almost like he blacked out fell on his face on our scale on the floor and bruised his lip. he doesn’t even remember falling, and was totally dazed and confused. our sex life has been almost 0 and it seems like he’s avoiding me, he still is touchy feely and cuddles but it’s like 0 sex drive or interest in me. he has been a lot more irritable. i make tiny mistakes because im clumsy like leaving a wrapper on my desk or there’s dog hair on my pants, and it seems like he is very angry over it. i love him so much and im here for him through everything, i just wanted to know the signs before i even bring it up, im just concerned for his wellbeing because it doesn’t seem he stays very hydrated throughout it and i heard that is not good for when you’re taking MDMA. thank you