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Hey all, rolled for the first time at a music festival a month ago at age 36. It was, as I am sure you are all well aware, a life changing experience and I was not prepared for how much I would love the experience. I have two kids and am married and really see myself, at most, rolling 2-3 a year but I definitely cannot see not doing this again.
My wife when she found out was livid. I told her, and she was half livid that I didn't consult with her before (valid) and half livid because she thinks it is a crazy sex drug that can kill me and that I would be flirting with other women and not able to control myself or know what I was doing (ehhhh not so valid lol). I have a completely different view on the drug after doing it, and generally am more flexible with this stuff than she is. She drinks casually (rarely gets drunk) and doesn't do anything else. My shit was tested and properly dosed, I would only do it safely like that and never more than once three times a month as recommended.
Anybody else have an experience where their partner was/is completely against their using it? How did you handle that? I 100% want to do this again, but I'd also like to be honest and open about it.
I used to be have your wife’s point of view. My wife but gf at that time loved going out and dropping. But I Absolutely hated drugs as a young adult, thought people who took it were the scum of society,I looked down on people that do the drug. because my parents thought the same.
Then later on as an older adult, I opened my mind up and dropped and omfg i Love the experience. I regretted not taking it earlier, now I take it least 4 times a year during music events.
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Not a good relationship dynamic to cultivate. Secrets and lies are relationship killers.
But....rock on if that's what ya do.