TL/DR: Looking to chat with a submissive male locked in chastity while I wear my tall equestrian riding boots. I am into soft/gentle BDSM, praise, arousal/denial, chastity, etc.

About Me: I (27 M bisexual) and I work a demanding job in tech development. I used to swim quite a bit through college and have kept my lean physique through the past several years.

My Dominance: I am psychologically interested in male submissiveness, and am clinical in how I treat erections. Erections are beautiful and powerful things to experience. Knowing you are chaste makes it so much more fulfilling as you and I deny your erection. Let’s talk about what aches as I sit here, legs crossed at my knees, with my boots on full display.

Your Submission: I am looking for a submissive male interested in a non-sexual arousal and defeat scenario. This means I am not interested in your release. I am interested in your ache, your restraint, and your obedience. I am looking for him to be comfortable with saying things like “please and thank you,” and “yes, Sir,” etc. It somewhat hurts to say things like that while achy, huh? Bonus points if you are older than me and ache for a 27yo dominant, in his tall riding boots with his legs crossed, to psychologically tame your sperm.

General Kinks/Interests: softcore BDSM, praise/encouragement, taming, rope bondage, clothing control, athleisure wear, equestrian gear, CMNM, chastity, etc.

Limits: sexual interaction of any kind, anything hardcore, anal, bathroom stuff, etc.

Reddit chat preferred. Please include your age, gender, orientation in your response otherwise you will be immediately ignored.