I (M/27/bisexual) am looking for another male (dominant) interested in discussing experiences similar to a recent chat I had with another male.

He was mostly straight, dominant, had no interest in ‘touching’ me sexually, but had a particular interest in male erections. It was mostly psychological. He claimed that erections are very powerful things/experiences to witness and have. The conversation evolved into a situation where he (as a dominant) considered binding me (the sub) and keeping me restrained in thick rope, somewhat sedated, and provided aphrodisiacs to ensure I was horny and achy.

The attempt in that chat was to psychologically assess me and leave me powerless. Bound in rope, wearing just white socks, with a full-on erection lasting hours. Leaving me feeling psychologically and erotically frustrated. Feeling ‘gentled’ by another male.

The dominant in my scene would ask me a series of questions, like:

• “You seem pretty docile in your head, how are you feeling?”
• “What is it like to be roped down by another male? I wouldn’t know, I’m curious.”
• “Erections are pretty powerful things, huh? Your’s has been sustained for the last 5-6 hours this way.”
• “You seem to be pretty horny in your restraint, huh?”
• “Do you feel the need to touch yourself right now? Tell me about that.”
• “The rope is pretty heavy and tight, huh? It’s a beautiful thing to know you’re nice and trapped.”

I want to know if you feel the same: erections are beautiful experiences to have, especially when left unresolved, psychologically edged, all in an attempt to defeat and subdue a sub’s ability to cum. It feels like being gentled, encouraged to be strong but yet defeated in restraint. Seeing a beautiful erection go frustrated. Given small glimmers of hope in how he asks questions, to be left vulnerable and trapped.

Interests: soft peril predicament, rope bondage, gentling, humbling, edging, spandex/lycra catsuits, aphrodisiacs, etc.

Limits: underage, aggressive domination (will only accept soft peril), and bathroom stuff.

Reddit Chat preferred, however if does not work initially, please send DM.