So here's the deal. I'm a happily married bi guy, but didn't know about the bi bit til after I was in a dedicated relationship with my now wife. She knows and is supportive. In fact, I never would've known about this side of myself without her.

One thing we both discovered is that she finds the idea of me being with another guy hot. Neither of us are quite to the point of acting on the fantasy, at least not yet. We thought we were at one point but once it started getting real we decided against it. Still, I've missed having a sext buddy and she's kinda missed getting turned on by reading the sext conversations back over.

Which leads me to here. I know this isn't exactly the right subreddit but we are still inching towards the idea of making the fantasy a reality at some point. I can't promise it'll come about, but we still talk about it regularly enough to know it's not going away for either of us. So what I'm looking for is a long term sext buddy who's cool with staying anonymous but might also be down with meeting up at some undefined future point. No pressure on that. If you're equally curious and uncertain, I totally get it.

Mostly what I'm looking for is a buddy to chat shit with, share perhaps share porn and fantasies with, and hardcore sext and/or roleplay with. Someone who will stick around, but understands that life and responsibilities will cause gaps in communication from time to time.

As for my "type" to what extent it might matter if we were to ever get to the point of meeting up, I tend to be attracted to cute/twink types. But if you just wanna chat and sext that's not a strict requirement by any means.

As for myself: I'm masculine with a bit of a dad bod that I'm slowly but surely working on.

That's about it. If you're interested, thanks for reading and I'd love to hear from you!

Oh, just to note, be aware that any conversation may be read by my wife, but she will but be involved in it - either as a subject or as a participant. This is all just between us, but I do want to be up front to respect your privacy if that's not something you're cool with. This isn't a bull/cuck/threesome thing at all. Just putting that out there.