I’m married, she doesn’t know. This isn’t an open relationship, so if that’s an issue for you, I completely understand, and I apologize if I’ve wasted your time. Thanks for opening my post! (breathing a sigh of relief for a moment as that's half the battle, haha)

But if you’re still reading... I’m not here for a meaningless fling, I’m looking for something real, to truly get to know the right person. A connection that blends emotional intimacy with undeniable chemistry. Whether it’s sharing an easy conversation over coffee, exchanging flirty messages throughout the day, or getting completely lost in the heat of the moment. I want something that feels wild and untamed, but also comfortable and secure. I know that something like this requires effort, care, and discretion, and I’m more than willing to put in the time and energy for the right person.

I’ve been in a dead bedroom for a long time now. I’m a dad and I bring that Daddy/Sensual/Pleasure Dom energy that can leave you weak in the knees. I’m tall, Caucasian (if that matters), dad-bodded, short-bearded, strong, and confident in what I have to offer. I take care of myself, work from home, and have plenty of free time during the day. I love diving into deep conversations about anything and everything, from movies to random facts, music, and really anything you're passionate about.

I have a wide range of kinks that I’d be happy to discuss privately. What I can say up front is that I’m open-minded and non-judgmental. I believe that being a Dominant is more than just giving orders, it’s about fostering a connection where submission is freely and eagerly given, not taken. It’s about that slow build, that craving, that desire to surrender because you trust me, because it excites you. A dynamic like that is built on trust, respect, and understanding, it’s a two-way street. For me, this isn’t just about fulfilling my own needs, but about truly understanding yours. I want to know you, what excites you, what makes you tick, what you secretly crave but have never been able to explore.

Outside the bedroom, I’m a bit nerdy, though you wouldn’t guess it just by looking at me. We can chat about hobbies, likes, and dislikes as we get to know each other. I’m an open and honest person, happy to answer any questions. I’m also naturally caring, which fits the comfort-factor of my appearance. What I’m missing is intimacy in all its forms.

I’d love to meet someone like-minded, down-to-earth, and easygoing. Physically, I tend to be most attracted to curvier bodies—BBW, SSBBW, chubby, curvy, mom-bods and up—but I’m open-minded and appreciate beauty in all it's forms. At the core of it, I’m just a regular guy looking for someone with a good head on their shoulders. So many posts focus on wanting someone “fit,” “hot,” or “attractive.” I just want a real person, however you are. If you’re looking for something passionate, exciting, and safe, let’s talk and see where things go.

I’m open to both an in-person connection and something purely online, as long as the chemistry is real and the excitement is mutual. With the right person, I can host, travel a bit, and even get creative with public/car play if needed. If we click, we can talk about our favorite app and move things over when the time is right.

If you’re not getting what you need in your life, don’t want to upend your home, but crave something new, or even if you’re just curious, reach out. It’s been too long since I’ve had real excitement and someone to share my days with. I respect discretion and believe in taking things at a pace that feels comfortable. When you’re ready, I’m more than willing to verify so we can both feel secure in our connection. If any of this resonates with you, shoot me a message. I'll be waiting for you.

P.S. Though my username may imply I am lazy, I promise you it was randomly generated and when it comes to putting effort into this... I am anything but.