There was a thread on the main sub a few days ago where I got into a discussion about "need" for sex. One HL described how, when they're single, crying into their pillows and feeling miserable. One person said that without sex, he can never find contentment. No one was able to articulate what they would do about it if/when they eventually became unable to have sex.

Is it crazy for me to think that a HL that life-consuming is the problem that needs to be worked on? I'm having plenty of sex with my partner now, but if I wasn't it wouldn't ruin my life or hurt my relationship or make it so that I could never be content with my life. If I became single, I could be just as happy as I am now.

I think about these people's lives and it just makes me sad. Surely a libido that intense is an issue to work on?