My fiance and I have managed to experience a good relationship for the time we've been together. However, there's something that has been becoming a big obstacle in it, and to be honest, it's damaged our relationship a little: We have completely different love languages.

I'm totally a physical touch quality time guy. She's a gifts receiving acts of service woman. The two languages that affect me the least, and the ones that I struggle more to express.

Because of that reason I come across as someone who's not romantic at all. I really want to change that.

I'm not even asking her to be more physical towards me, I'm happy if she enjoys my constant touching and she actually does and kind of measures my love via measuring how physical I'm with her. She's also a great conversationalist, and we spent quality time together a lot.

She's also making use of a peculiar freedom she's got in this relationship and witnessing her autonomy is very appealing for me. More than feeling loved, I feel love and attraction towards her. Yet, I struggle to show that love in an effective way.

In her eyes, I'm becoming the lazy guy. My creativity is just not working regarding what to do (in her two main languages) so that it has a strong effect in her.

Physical touch and quality time do work, but she still lacks to feel loved a lot, and I'm sure it's because I'm not speaking in her love languages.

Tips to become better at gifts giving and acts of service?