EDIT: lol “job bud” in the title thanks to my phone. Super!

I’m very seriously looking for a jo bud somewhere in Southwest Louisiana or Southeast Texas, but it’s harder than it sounds!

I’m trying to experience something like you’d find in any of the posts to r/jobudstories - just someone chill and laid back to hang out with and put on some porn and go from there. We could just take care of ourselves while we watch or lend each other a hand. Who knows? Just see where it goes and what the vibe is while respecting mutual boundaries and not being pushy or too aggressive.

I’m not gonna say I’m straight but curious or whatever bc I’m obviously at least a little bi for wanting to do this, but I’m really just about the one thing. Not typically attracted to guys outside of maybe a few celebrities, but I’m just super into the idea of getting off with another dude. Don’t know why and don’t really care at this point. I just want to do it.

I messed around a little bit with one guy before but I’m pretty inexperienced and would be pretty nervous if/when I find somebody to hook up with. Could be a one time thing, could lead to a regular thing, I don’t know. Not looking for a relationship or anything more than just a fwb sort of thing.

I’m not picky but if I could find someone with a similar mindset, it’d be awesome. Looks wise, I’m an average guy. Early 40s, white, hwp but working on a dadbod. Average in pretty much all the ways a dude can be average.

All respect to guys who have themselves figured out and know what they want, but I’m not there yet. Finding someone else who’s in the same boat would be great. Also, I can’t host which is usually a deal breaker. Just getting that out of the way now.

Anybody out there?