Hey, I'm a 38M, primarily straight. Interested to talk to either masc or femme types. I'm pretty open minded about kink and about helping another guy get off, so posting here to see what is out there. I have jerked with a friend a long time ago and it was a pleasurable experience. Now I just play online but I was curious to see about playing in person with someone again.

Looking to - Either help a guy get off by watching some straight porn together (masculine vibes) or alternatively, when I am feeling kinky I like to be submissive and dress girly. This is not required but could be fun to try. Hand/oral play. I'm open minded with the right person but that's what I am looking for primarily. I am not attracted to guys in the traditional sense, but more so into kink and sharing pleasure with decent people. Looking to chat for a while first, perhaps play via cam/pics and get to know each other and what we are both into. In person play would be after that if we are both curious to move to that.

My vibe - not looking to rush, definitely horny but not desperate and looking for safe play. Expecting the same from you. If you've never jerked with a guy before, that is cool too - I'm looking for safe, sane and slow to make sure it's a good fit.

Who is a good match - kinky but thoughtful people. Grammar and being able to express yourself well are a turn on. I'm intelligent but humble, easy going, and into fitness. Also, looking for people who aren't just about using someone for pleasure. We are both people, let's respect each other, discuss boundaries and have fun. I can get pretty kinky during play time but expect mutual respect outside of that.

Pics - Some pics on my profile (of me dressed). If you want some masculine pics, I have some to share to see if you are interested. 5'7, 145.

Feel free to reach out if curious to chat about the possibility, no rush.