Hey, I'm a 37 year old straight guy living near Farmingdale. Romantically I am straight, sexually I am open/bi. I prefer females but like playing with guys at times. For me, playing with guys can take two forms: 1) being submissive to a guy to please him, which would require me dressing up for him, or 2) just playing as another straight guy who wants to watch porn and lend a hand.

I am looking for a safe and discrete guy to potentially explore with. My stats are at the bottom. Only into single guys though, a personal preference.

I have two personas - regular mode and sissy mode. For in person, I'd be ok with engaging as either. For regular mode, I am interested in straightforward play - basically sharing pleasure with a straight or bi guy, preferably one who prefers females. For my other persona, Briana (sissy, crossdresser), I am into kinks and play mostly online, but wouldn't be opposed to dressing up and acting femme in person . I'm not passable but willing to become sexier (more attractive to a straight guy) for the right play partner.

Looking only for hand, oral or kink-specific play like posing for someone or being submissive to someone.

A big part of the turn on for me is the mental aspect, as well as finding someone safe with a good balance. In the past, I have mostly just played online via cam. I primarily look for women but when I hit a dry spell and I'm really horny, the submissive urges come on. I've hooked up with 3 guys in my life (just mutual blowjobs), so I'm looking for someone similar who may even be apprehensive about meeting up. Not looking to rush, and will only move forward if the fit is right.

Stats: I'm 5'7, 147, white, single. Happy to exchange body pics at first, then face pics if needed. I can also get on cam and play online first if it helps. Feel free to message.