Hey Reddit! It’s been a minute. I'm in the Stony Brook area tonight and tomorrow and would love to find an excuse to get away from my family for a little bit. Seeking everything from a coffee buddy to dinner companion to maybe something a little more intimate? I don’t drink at the moment due to a stomach issue but also very happy to grab a mocktail (while you grab a cocktail) somewhere.

This post isn’t specifically looking for sex, although I’m not ruling it out. I’m basically just bored and don’t know anyone else out here anymore even though I grew up in the area and I’m single and like to meet new cute people to flirt and have fun with.

I’m a 33-year-old BBW (like size 22/24 for reference), tattooed, formerly dyed hair that’s growing out so it’s mostly just my natural brunette (with twinges of silver 🥲), big glasses, nose ring, a little bit of an alt vibe, live in the city and just out here for the weekend. I’m queer but I’ve mostly been into guys lately. Successful in my career, love to travel, probably a sort of typical millennial? Vaxxed and DDF (and you should be too). Also probably goes without saying but if it reaches that point, I CANNOT host anyone over (maybe goes without saying because lol family). But again, sex really isn’t my goal here.

Looking for men 18-40 who love women with my body type. No smokers (420 okay). Have a soft spot for tattoos and younger folks but I’m open to everyone between that age range. I like driven, intelligent, thoughtful people who I won’t come away from an evening with realizing they never asked me a single question about myself, which seems to be the MO for a lot of straight men I’ve met these days.

To get my attention, chat me with a photo of you (doesn’t have to include your face) & some info about who you are. I get SO MANY messages when I do this. Send me more than one sentence or "hi" if you want a response. Prove to me why you're worth meeting up with. Also tell me your favorite food to prove you read to the end.

I'll straight up delete your message with no remorse if you don't follow these instructions. No photo no reply.

Looking forward to getting to know you :)