Mid 30’s F4M

So bored lately. Very put off by the male sex recently. Just looking for someone who’s not a piece of shit, a flake, or a ghost. I’ve posted before and haven’t found what I’m looking for.

Looking for longterm with the right person but open to other experiences in the meantime.

Biggest thing for me is vibes and connection. I don’t want to meet you without those things.

About you: - You’re a non-smoker. - You’re a non-drug user if you want any sort of relationship with me. If you just want to hook up, then you won’t be high on anything in my presence and you’ll never smell like weed. - You’re single. Completely. No, I don’t care that your wife won’t fuck you and you haven’t been touched in years. Don’t waste my time. - You’re in your late 20s-early 40s. This is very firm. - You’re clean and hopefully funny. - You need to be willing to show a face pic pretty early on. I’m into faces. I won’t be showing one right away, but will before we meet. Yes it’s unfair, but don’t message me if it’s a big deal to you. - You’re into BBW/plus size women. Don’t get mesmerized by this ass, that ain’t the only thing that’s big. I want someone who is INTO bbw, not just tolerant of it. - You’re patient and will help me to feel comfortable. - Ideally, you have your own place or are willing to shell out for a decent room. But I’m looking for something consistent and getting a room often might get annoying. But like…let’s go on a few dates first. - You like to build a connection before meeting and get turned on by getting to know someone on a deeper level. - You are not a flake, a ghost, or a piece of shit. But those guys never think they are, right?

I am: - Single, plus size/bbw, no kids, don’t drink much, no smoking or drugs, very direct and straightforward. - Not interested in wasting time. Attracted to humor and intelligence. Usually go for guys in their late 20s, 30s, or early 40s. - A seller/content creator. You’ll see when you click my profile. Although I do these things, I’m very much a real person looking for genuine connections and this post has nothing to do with those extracurricular activities.