Ever since my boyfriend moved away I’ve been struggling a lot with the relationship. I know everything with the new school and that is new to him but still. He hasn’t started a single conversation except sending me a beer glass he got. Its always been I who started conversations, called him. Suggested maybe we could get together soon. 2 weeks ago I was supposed to come see him but he’d made plans so that I would barely be able to see him (even though I had asked so many times are you free that weekend, because I didn’t want to stress and spend hundreds of kr for just a few hours) and then the breaking came. He wanted me to book a room for 750kr. I said “or maybe I can just sleep on your floor because I don’t have that kinda money to spend and I have an air mattress”. But after looking at it more, I would spend so much money for just a day. The buss arriving around 11 and leaving at 17. I was hurt and frustrated. I called it all off and decided he’d have to make an effort for once. Sending me a single message like “hi”. It’s been 2 weeks and nothing. He’s liked my social media pics.

I love him so much but I’m just so tired of not feeling seen. I’m thinking of messaging him telling him that it’s over (a bit more delicately and explaining why) I know school is taking a lot for him right now but maybe then it’s just better he focuses on that instead? I don’t know.

He’s changed so much since he moved away.