I've processed this experience but I still will always have questions. I met someone online 3 years ago, we really hit it off, but she was in a bad situation. I did my best to be supportive of her as she was figuring out how to free herself from her bad stuff with the hope of her coming here to be with me. She always had the goal of getting to me, but she reconnected with estranged family a few months ago that got her officially out of her badness, great right?

She disappears on me, I've had this before with her, big changes stress her out and she disappears. She starts only talking to me once a week, then not at all. Her FB disappears and I find her again with a new account. I know it's her, I message her on why we stopped talking, she BLOCKS me. So yeah. I dunno. She has dealt with a lot of abuse and is bi polar, my best guess is she is working on herself and I'm not a person that is needed anymore. No explanation or anything. It just really hurts, and I hope she finds the healing she needs, I just wanted to be there with her. I'm sure that my place in her life was a benefit, and maybe she will reach out later, one can hope. But even then, do I wanna try this again with a person who can't communicate?