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Me [M22] and my online friend[F20]- We may start a long distance relationship and I need advice as well as your thoughts
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Hello I would like to admit that I first posted this on r/relationships however it was removed. So I am asking you guys since this is something that has been on my mind, I would like to ask for advice and your thoughts on things. I have developed a friendship with someone I met online and we have talked pretty much everyday and our friendship has grown strong pretty quick. This is a long post but here is what has happened between us.

We met on omegle in early January and we talked for like an hour or so and then we decided to become skype friends. She doesn't talk to me until February 5th and when she does we talk for 3 hours and since then we have either face timed or texted each other for like 2 hours each day. We became fast friends and we talked about our problems and how we tried going out with people and not had luck. We both understand each other and when things failed with the people that we had an interest in we comforted each other and told each other to not give up.

We are now Facebook friends and snapchat friends and we became fast friends, and I even admitted to her that if it wasn't for her I probably would not have asked my crush out and had gone insane after my breakdown. Talking to her makes me happy and last we we revealed that we both have developed feelings for each other. We mostly chat through text but we really open up to each other and I like it.

This week we both agreed that we like each other and that if things don't work out for us with other people in a year then we could start a relationship. This agreement just got changed to one month or so because we are really starting to like each other.

We both know that distance is a problem but we also both are saying to screw the distance and just be together. So I am asking you guys what you think of this, I know that long distance relationships can be tough especially when we know that we will rarely see each other. I am praying that we both find someone closer to each other to be with instead but if we don't I am honestly happy that we could be together.

Now things between us are getting a bit more intense and we are aware of the risks,hell I have to admit I only saw her as a friend but now I am seeing her as something else because she understands me and I am beginning to care for her. It may have been a month but we were talking for an hour a day and we still continue to do so.

So again what are your thoughts on this? And sorry for the long post I just need advice.

I would like to add a final note we did not start talking to each other since we both wanted a relationship, it just happened on its own, if you don't think we should move things forward then I am happy being her friend, but if you think we should then I will take things with her at the correct speed.

TL;DR I might begin a long distance relationship with a friend who lives in a different country and who I have been talking to constantly for over a month now. Advice and thoughts?

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