me (24m) and my ex-partner (28nb) ended things on sunday. not because of a fuck up, someone doing anything wrong or because of faling out of love (atleast i think). But because of the distance and it is tearing me apart. we have had multiple monents like this before but they regertet it and wanted to give it a shot. but i feel like this the last time. they had a situation happen in life this week and i couldn't be there for them physicly i wanted to drive over in the weekend to be there but they said no so i didn't. i regret it so much maybe that would have changed things maybe not. 3 weeks ago i had an extended weekend and asked if they where free to come over but they said they didn't only to later confess they could wich kind of hurt me. But i can't stop missing them. part of me wants to drop every thing and go over there, part of me want's them to be the one to win back my trust and a part of me knows thats unfair. i don't know what to do maybe it's better to end it here and save ourselves the hart break. but i don't want that. Sorry