I (23F) have been seeing T (23M) for four months. We met while he was a foreign exchange student in the US. He recently moved back to Italy and I am supposed to visit him and his family in a few weeks but we have a few issues.

1. I had a seizure two weeks ago (he took care of me) and this caused me to not be able to work for the past two weeks so I don't have as much money as I would like to travel to visit him.

2. Bc of the seizure, my passport processing was put on hold because I don't have the $$. I'm a law student and my funds are extremely limited and my mother has borderline personality disorder so she does not help me financially then my father passed away when I was 12. My extended family only focus on my father rather than the children he left behind so they are no help either. I am completely alone and being with T has been my first experience of happiness since my father passed.

Then on top of all of this T wants to come to grad school in the US in either 1 or 2 years and on top of that he may not go to grad school in the same state as me so we'll be doing more long distance.

I don't know if it is worth it to continue this relationship when I just don't have the funds. It is stressing me out and I said something not very kind to T today regarding my financial situation stress. I just don't know what to do anymore any advice will be helpful!