When I first met her she was very pretty. She's from the USA and I met her on a game called FFXIV. I'm from Japan so our time zones are really bad but we make it work and find time for each other.

She was even planning on visiting me in a couple of months... But lately, she been trying to appear more masculine... She cut her hair really short like how a man would, she's wearing baggy clothes and she just completely stopped wearing make up. I really, really don't like this change and to put it bluntly she's really unattractive to me to the point I rather not have our intimate moments on video call on discord and everytime she ask or hints at it I make an excuse why I can't right now.

I want to talk to her about it but I'm afraid I might come off as insensitive. I notice on her Twitter she added they/them and genderfluid on her profile...so I assume she wants to be man? It's actually why I didn't want to ask because I don't want to come across closed minded but I just can't...

I don't want to date someone I have zero attraction to and I'm planning on ending our relationship tomorrow... because I'm afraid of talking to her about it and hurting her feelings. I rather just be friends if she's planning on being a trans man.