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We been dating for 2 almost 3 years now. Since the start of 2024, she distanced herself and ask for space because she got stressed in life and her family is giving her a hard time. She constantly wanted space which I did give it to her. We talk occasionally and this repeated until I recently visited her, i might of accidentally glance at her phone and see she is talking to another guy and they even have a private server and matching profile picture on their discord. I was devastated and we had a talk, she said that only 2 people were useful in her life which is that guy she been talking to and one of her friend. I shattered to pieces when I heard that cuz she said even though I was caring for her and all but I don’t really have an answer to any question for concern. But the thing is Everytime I tried to talk to her about it, she gets annoyed and start to push me off of it. Since that guy been helping her with health advice so much, they decided to ghost everyone and make their own discord server to talk. And they are nothing but just friends. She said I would always be her foremost important person but it doesn’t seem to be the case when she instantly replying to that guy text while ghosting me for days during that 2 months period since the beginning of 2024. We on a trip now, I really want to leave and heal myself, but I didn’t want to look awkward because it a group trip and I don’t want to ruin the whole mood for the group. I been overthinking about it and it exactly what happened with the thought I had the last 2 months. She even cancelled the parents meeting and before I meet her, she wanted to start the relationship from the beginning as base 1. We had no intimacy the past couple of days when I met her and she would try to distance from me and we just stay in different rooms even though we live in the same airbnb. And I can see when she text the guy she would angle her phone so that I won’t see it. What should I do now?
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