Hello!

I have this... companion.

We frequently flirt quite heavily with each other and spend all day in vc and game together and watch stuff together.

Well. Mostly.

Sometimes she seems to be super averse to any interaction with terse responses. Many times i know it is just adhd being a bitch and she is having a day she is angry for no reason.

We spent time together like that before, just silent and streaming what we are playing to the other.

But sometimes we do not even do that.

I have social anxiety, and whenever such terse day or two happens i start ruminating over whether ive said anything that caused this, whether i went too far and pushed a boundary she is not (yet) comfortable with.

Boundary wise, we have expressed desire to meet up face to face and to cuddle and to quote her...

"Discuss the heteropatriarchy by being unrepentantly gay while visiting castles in your country" (... i really hope she wont read this.)

So what i need advice for is...

If you have adhd with emotional regulation problems, shitty family situation and stresses...

How would you feel if someone, after you recovered from terse moods like that, asked you if they did anything to cause it?

After the last time it happened she went and streamed herself drawing our sci fi roleplaying game characters in cute and funny situations. She is not a good artist. I love her and her art all the same.

She is also back to her usual language (using dummy and cutesy flirts)