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My (35m) gf (29f) is dealing with an eating disorder
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So in recent months my nevermet gf has been feeling more exhausted, fainting at work, and looking paler than usual. It came to a head this past week when a doctors visit revealed she was anemic. Eventually she confrssed to me that she's been dealing with bulimia for some time.

I try to be supportive and talk through it with her but it's too raw for her I guess (it's not the first time she's avoided serious topics though). To be honest I don't know what's considered overstepping my boundaries here. She has mentioned how she tends to skip lunch and other meals, but I don't know if it's my place to keep her accountable on that front.

I feel awful to say her resistance to being open is putting me off somewhat but I don't want to be intrusive. How would you suggest I approach this? She insists she can get better on her own but she refuses to say how she's going to do that. Help?

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