6’4’’/193cm open-minded dominant/rigger/sadist enjoying fitness, partner dancing, and kink. STEM/tech worker professionally.

I read every message, and like you know...don't be shy; I for sure am not.

Vanilla about me

• Ambitious, adventurous, but also enjoying goofing/fooling around.
• Working in tech remotely for US companies, traveling around the EU, UK, and US. Originally Croatian.
• into a healthy diet, fitness, no smoking, drugs, nor alcohol(usually)
• current hobbies - shibari, philosophy podcast/books, bachata dancing.
  • previous hobbies - museum crawling, BJJ, basketball (both parents used to play it), painting, drawing, improv comedy, public speaking (Toastmasters), salsa dancing, and others
• current reading: The Burnout Society (Byung-Chul Han)
  • previous recent reading: Cal Newport's work, Benjamin Franklin's biography, and Bullet Journal book.

I'm curious about who has influenced your thinking the most and why!

Kink about me

Delved head-first into kink since I've moved to London. I used to go to 3 munches and 1-2 parties per week; these days I'm way more chill about it. I believe, especially when it comes to BDSM, the mental aspect is just as important and my kinks reflect as such. Here's the summary in broad strokes (it's a buffet, not a requirement list).

• Bondage/Shibari
  • Huge things for me; regular at Anatomie studio, Studio Yukari, and other rope events. I like sensual, sadistic rope, predicaments, (partials or simpler full) suspensions, and how flexible it is.
• Dominance
  • Wrestling, physically overpowering is hot! Getting that look on subs' faces when they realize how helpless they are.
  • I enjoy both putting bratty subs in their place, as well as good well-behaved girls deserving of praise
  • Into discipline, orgasm control, praise, cuddles, and giggles. Sometimes sensual, sometimes strict.
  • Want to explore sub-training, rule setting, and more intense/involved D/s arrangements
• Sadism
  • Have enjoyed usual light-to-mid sadism, bare hands, paddles, floggers, etc.
  • Into emotional sadism/humiliation/degradation. Enjoying the cathartic release, connection, and closeness.
  • Want to explore mid-to-heavy sadism, canes, and carnal satisfaction of having someone wailing in pain.

Aftercare is also a huge aspect, and I'm a huge sucker for pillow talk and cuddling to sleep; heck I'll even make you hot chocolate or tea after :).

What I'm looking for

First and foremost connection, good flirty banter, mutual respect, and trust. Interested in new play partners and experiences.

Eventually, I'd love to find a long-term relationship/nesting/primary partner.

If this profile resonates with you message me, and we can take it from there.