We’re an early 50’s MWC, discreet, typical suburban mom and dad next door types, clean cut, hygienic, DDF, professional and DISCREET. We’ve been in the “Lifestyle” as they say for a bit more than 3 years now. We’ve only played with guys, either MFM threesome or the husband watches, or the wife plays solo.

What are we looking for: a decent, attractive guy, that the wife is attracted to, that’s consistent, engaging and attentive. It seems like this has become our “unicorn”, but I’ll dip our toes into the Reddit pond again and see what happens. Also, the husband is orally curious, so we’ve been kicking around the idea of finding a guy that would be into that……so here we are. Ideally we’d like a guy we both have something in common with, can go out and eat with or enjoy some “vanilla” activities with some naughty fun sprinkled in as well. So. FREIND with benefits but friends either both husband and wife. Does that make sense? Bit of “throuple” vibe….

If you’ve gotten this far congratulations!!!

Potential candidates should be:

-Central AR only….our availability is chaotic at times so someone local is preferred.

-Tall, wife prefers 6’ or taller.

-Clearly we’re looking for someone Bi or very heteroflexible , be comfortable with us in the beginner stage of this exploration and masculine as well.

-BWC is a plus, but be at least 6”, thicker is better.

-Age, please be between 40-50. Why not younger than 40 you ask? Well we’ve found the maturity level of guys in their 30’s is not consistent with where we are at, as well as we have kids in their 20’s and early 30’s so there is an “ick” factor with guys too young.

-Smooth/shaved. Neither the wife nor husband are interesting in hairy.

-DDF, this goes without saying. Also no smoking/vaping is a big plus. Please be hygienic, clean, etc….nothing will turn the wife off quicker than a pic with your dirty fingernails in it.

-Tattoos, wife is into that…..

-HWP, we are not Ken and Barbie and don’t expect you to be Ken, but proportional is the preference on our end.

-Pics, if you’re looking for tons of nudes and such, move along. She doens’t provide them neither with husband. If your first communication with us is to see a pic of the wife you’ll get shitcanned. Discretion is a must.

-Be comfortable sharing a G rated face pic.

Anyway, may the odds be ever in your favor. Respondents that clearly have not read the post will have comments ignored or DM’s deleted.